We have had 2 - count them TWO - accident free potty training days in a row! There is light at the end of the toilet - er, tunnel!
We have been taking the long, slow approach to potty training. I know there are plenty of experts who tout the 3 day method for potty training but we are going with the 3 month (plus maybe a few more) plan. Much like the (non)sleep-training approach we took.
Read: The Lazy Method.
It appears to be working! The non-sleep-training thing also worked for us so we will go with it. Essentially the lazy method is to ease into things and not push anything too fast and go with instincts (or sometimes with whatever is just easier in the moment). For us it has minimized crying and in the case of potty training accidents. I know this might not work with all kids so as with anything parenting or child related it isn't universal but things seem to be looking up for having a potty trained kid at (or around, we aren't pushing remember) his third birthday.
And once I stop high-fiving myself, I'll go pick FrenchFry up from daycare to get the news that he had 15 accidents and refused to go near the potty today. Because parenting is usually a one step forward, half a step back process.
But for right now- we are accident free for two whole days! We will take it.
How did you approach potty training? Was it the same for each of your kids if you have more than one?